Celebrate Your Wins!

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I told my self August was going to be my month. I told myself I am giving myself till the last day, my birthday, to take some huge steps forward. I kind of put in my head nothing was going to stop me and my fear of it all was just going to fuel me, for real this time. As you all know I’ve tried to go down many paths and majority of those roads I’ve taken have become dead ends due to having Crohn’s Disease and the unpredictable and unavoidable complications it can produce.

Well, although there were a few disappointments this month (you know, life happens) the few good things that have happened completely over shadowed them. The month started out with my car breaking piece by piece. I’ve never been approved for loans or anything on my own, my parents always had to cosign or sign for me. I have never owned anything myself.. Mostly due to not being able to hold down a good job to make enough income. But, I’ve been working hard for the vodka company and getting enough hours to help me out. I’ve also been working hard to build up my credit and it definitely paid off. I was able to sign a lease for a brand new 2016 Toyota Corolla Sport August 2nd! As soon as the sales woman, who was awesome btw, told me I was approved I wanted to jump out of the chair 😀

That week I decided to finally give a potential mentor in the real estate world a call. Needless to say, I can’t wait to work with her. She isn’t only awesome at what she does, she’s a suuuper nice person. The next step I took was signing with a Real Estate company in my town, Real Living. I had my first little session tonight after signing all the papers with the manager and I can’t wait to get going! This is a job that does take a lot of persistence, time, and discipline but I honestly think it’s the perfect job for me. Having the freedom being a real estate agent gives me, I don’t have the fear of being fired or missing work because I’m sick. I can work from home if need be. I couldn’t be more excited for my future! Oh, I also got approved for my second piece of investment property! Time to flip a house!! Woohoo!

I’m not telling you all of this to brag, at all, I’m very far from where I want to be but simply because sometimes you just have to celebrate your wins in life. Actually, you should do it all the time. As many failures as I have I’ve never really looked at them as failures, it was kind of a normal thing for me (in the least depressing way possible lol), I’d just say to myself “on to the next” and picked up and moved on. Now that I’m really working towards something I really love, I’m humbled but excited.

Never be afraid to share your successes with family, friends, and even the rest of the world! Not only will it keep you on your path to success but it may even fuel someone else to pursue something they love as well. And always try to find the opportunities and possibilities in your failures, because I promise you they are there! It is though, time to get back to work 🙂 Happy Tuesday friends!

-xoMichelle

 

Prep time! :D

Today’s the day… the day of the dreaded prep. I’m going in for my yearly colonoscopy tomorrow to check and see if my medication is working. It’s always this time of year it seems to come: summertime and the weathers nice. But hey it’s just another day in the life. I’ve been feeling okay lately. Just okay. I’ve been a little more tired than usual, which isn’t necessarily a bad thing because with the steroids I was staying up night after night, the insomnia was REAL. Also, my appetite hasn’t been there but I’m not entirely upset about that either since I packed on the pounds during my last 9 month stretch on and off of the roids (Prednisone and Uceris). A lower appetite also means this prep won’t be as miserable as usual. I have pain here and there, very localized though, I can almost put a pin on it. It’s my usual pain, like a knife in the stomach kind. You have to catch your breathe a little bit from it. But, it’s definitely less frequent than normal *thumbs up!* 😀

So after my recent off of Uceris, as you know, I’ve had good days and bad. I seem to be having a lot of IBS symptoms unrelated to Crohn’s. I’ve had to use several courses of antibiotics to treat these over the last 6 months or so. When my taper from steroids starts I almost prepare myself for the days on days of fatigue, countless and very urgent bathroom trips a day, and unbearable stomach pain. But knock on wood, this time like I said I am doing okay! I’ve been completely off Uceris for about a week and a half now, which doesn’t seem very long but it is. It’s nice to see my body coming back and my face going back to its normal size ha! No more moon face woohoo! Just crossing my fingers my insides show some good news as well.

I’m anxious for tomorrow to be over with, I usually go under full anesthesia for the colonoscopy and this time I’m not. My doctor only performs them under partial sedation and the last time I had partial… it was a nightmare. Probably one of the most painful things I’ve endured besides kidney stones. I was sick on the couch for a week afterwards. I’m hoping I’m more healed on the inside so the recovery will be easier. After this procedure we’ll see if this run on Humira (my third time in about five years) is working. I went from an injection every two weeks to once a week a few months ago and it seems to be helping more. This is frustrating though because no matter how I feel if I still have inflammation or signs of active disease then I have to visit other options. I think this just stems from the everyday struggles of living with a chronic illness. We don’t know what completely “normal” or “healthy” ever really feels like, and the reality of it is most of us won’t ever know. But, my doctor tells me I have two more options we can talk about. Thankfully the world of medicine is ever expanding and if those don’t work I will most likely qualify for some sort of trial, or some other treatment will hit the market. That’s the thought, or hope.

Tomorrow I will be participating in research by donating samples of blood, hair, nails, and tissue to help Crohn’s research. Even if it won’t directly benefit me, it might save someone else’s life in the future. So please keep helping me raise awareness and money! Some of us desperately need it! And to those doctors and medical workers who are constantly pushing for new treatments, my family and friends who are a constant support, and all of the people who share social media posts and donate money, I owe you all my whole life. I wouldn’t be here without all of you.

 

-xoMichelle

What The F&#*

Excuse my French, but today was that kinda day. The past few days I haven’t been feeling that well at all. Been going to the bathroom a lot and lost all fight in me for a second when I looked down in the toilet (after sprinting out of my microbiology lab) and saw blood… Like wtf. Can we catch a break sometimes?! Like longer than a month in the past ten years! Blood and mucus and literally running to the bathroom with every bite of food I’d eat. I tried to eat a lot of calories tonight even though it wasn’t the healthiest food choices I do not want to put myself in the position of losing a lot of weight. I’m hoping this will resolve itself without any medication but that’s usually not the case. I feel like this happens so often I mention it to friends or anyone and they just completely disregard it, and ignore it. It makes the battle even harder, I’m sure my Crohnie’s know what I’m talking about. Again, I never look for sympathy but it does make a difference, you might even make someone’s day better just a simple “feel better” or something. I know people around me get sick or annoyed when I talk about it a lot or say “I don’t feel good” a lot. But I don’t make this stuff up… I get sick of being sick. And the hardest part of it all is I take such good care of my body. Exercising, eating healthy, rest. And it doesn’t even matter.

It seems like it’s never going to end. Well I guess in reality it isn’t hah. I’ve definitely already accepted that but some days are much, much harder than others. It’s the unpredictable nature of the disease that’s the worst and I believe a hard concept for others to grasp. I mean I didn’t feel that great but I was still able to bust my butt yesterday at the gym and today walking to and from class was difficult. I either had severe lower abdominal pain or panic that I wasn’t close enough to the bathroom.

Actually something interesting happened the other day. In Anatomy Lab we were testing our hematocrit levels and my professor was describing how the buffer after separation (WBC’s and platelets) should be so small, to the naked eye it’s non-existent. Well, I saw mine.. Pretty damn clear too. This actually explains a lot. I could be having a huge flare and my blood work never shows much at all except for elevated WBCs. Woohoo thanks for the heads up A&P! -__-

Well getting words out and writing definitely helps turn my thought process around but I’m still frustrated as hell. Especially when I’d like to go out with my friends this weekend but I know if I push myself and even have one drink that’s a totally and completely horrible idea. Oh well, l guess life never gives us battles that we’re not strong enough to fight.

ibd

-xoMichelle

“Hey, it’s me again!” -CD

Hey! 🙂 First of all, today marks almost exactly 13 months of me having this blog! I couldn’t be happier with the outcome of it so far. I’ve talked to people all over the world through this and have met some truly amazing people. This past year has been nothing but a roller coaster. It’s been calming down lately being on Entyvio, but side effects still prevail… You have to weigh though what you’re willing to go through to feel good, and compared to some of the stuff I’ve been through these side affects are pretty miniscule.

But on another note, Crohn’s never fails so remind you “Hey! I’m still here, don’t forget about me!” even when you’re at your healthiest. I’ve had a few days here and there with severe stomach pain and exhaustion. A lot of people think that just because you’re having a bout of feeling good, it means your cured. Well people, there is NO cure for Crohn’s disease! I know people who don’t experience it have a hard time grasping it but it drives me crazy when someone thinks I’m cured just because I’m feeling good right now. We just go into remission (sometimes clinical, sometimes you just know), and that could last weeks, months, and for the lucky ones even years. But it is so unpredictable it could come and bite you in the ass within seconds, minutes, or hours. Don’t get me wrong, overall I am still feeling pretty great, but I’m starting to think my body is programmed that after I feel good for a few weeks it just sends a little reminder, you’re still sick! Don’t forget! lol It’s really frigggen annoying. The other day I couldn’t eat anything without having severe abdominal pain I literally had to concentrate on breathing just to get through them. They’re almost worse than the really awful flares and hospital stays because they interrupt your workout, delicious dinner, class, or whatever you’re doing just to remind you you’re not completely normal. They interrupt your times of feeling so good you almost forget the disease is even there.

I haven’t been in remission in probably 10 years, and if you were to ask my doctor, looking at my latest colonoscopy, I’m still not “clinically” in remission, but I have very mild active disease. Now seeing it written down that sounds crazy I have been constantly battling this for ten years with few to no breaks from it. I’ve been diagnosed for about thirteen years, but I definitely had it several years before my PCP just had a stick up his ass and wouldn’t give me a referral to a specialist. But, like I’ve said before having this disease has made me into who I am. And like people say some things keep you humble, this disease is definitely one of them. Each little “hello, I’m still here” puts it all in perspective. It allows me to live everyday to the fullest because it literally could be your last.

I can’t believe it’s already been a year I’ve had my blog. Thank you to everyone whose been following along and whose read some of it! And thank you to all f my fellow Crohnie’s who have supported me! 🙂

But, it’s time to watch the Bachelor 😀 I’ll catch ya all later!

-xoMichelle